As most of you know, Dummie Beck passed away on the 7th November. I had intended to post about this earlier, but I decided to wait until we had the full facts. Dummie was a regular at The Vortex and was popular and well liked.
Dummie had been ill for a while and recently had a blood clot removed. It appears he had gone shopping and succumbed to a heart attack from which he didn’t recover. He had known that something might happen to him and as he lived alone, he had given his log in details to his neighbour just in case, so it would be known what had become of him. That day his neighbour logged in and contacted somebody on his contact list. She did not speak English well nor know how to play Second Life, so the news was a little sketchy.
We later heard from a RL friend of Dummie who confirmed he had died and she told Dummie’s partner, Caleb, that Dummie’s relatives showed no interest and there was no money to pay the expenses, so there was no funeral and his body was cremated without ceremony. This was sad news indeed.
On Sunday we held a memorial event at the Vortex where many of Dummie’s friends and many of the kid community who were touched by this, came to show their respects and celebrate his life. Amazingly we had our largest traffic count of 18,747.
On behalf of Dummie and Caleb, I would like to thank all those who attended and showed their kindness at a very sad time. Dummie may have left us, but he will always be remembered.
Disturbed
I was somewhat disturbed by the news that some were saying that it was a hoax, and that they had seen it all before. Even if it had been, which we know it was not, this was extremely insensitive of them and very upsetting for Caleb and those that were sad and upset at his loss. These persons were basing their cynicism on nothing more than an assumption.
If there should ever be another unfortunate occasion like this, I would suggest to them, that you kindly keep your thoughts to yourself until at least you have got your facts right, and if you should find a hoax, then stop and think first and not come piling in with the tact of a twenty ton truck.